Love dare day 19

Look back over the dares from previous days. Were there some that seemed impossible to you? Have you realized your need for God to change your heart and to give you the ability to Love? Ask Him to show you where you stand with him, and ask for the strength and grace to settle your eternel destination.

Questions: What do you believe God is saying to you? Is there a stirring in your heart? What decision have you made in response to this?

I believe God is saying that I'm on the right track and to keep on pushing the limits of who I am and what I can do to improve myself, my marriage and help improve the lives of others. Yes I believe there is stirring in my heart and this stirring is not completely clear. However, I am starting to feel the effect of the love dare challenge which is for me to complete the 40 day challenge in True choice.

What decision have I made, well I choose to check in on myself and make sure I'm still making the right choices for the right reasons. I choose to continue to pursue personnal betterment.

Love dare day 18

Prepare a special dinner at home, just for the 2 of you. The dinner can be as nice as you prefer. Focus this time on getting to know your spouse better, perhaps in areas you've rarely talked about. Determine to make it an enjoyable evening for you and your mate.

Questions: What did you learn about your spouse that you didn't know before? How could you continue this process of discovery in other ways, at other times? What were some of the moments that made this evening memorable?

Well I have to tell you that the 20 questions in the appendixe really kicked it off for us. I invented a story about what I was reading and that I thought it would be interesting if you read the questions together and both answered them honestly and openly. IT was really kind of GREAT. The questions were awsome and we realised that we are very intuned with each other. We both know where we stand and what we both choose to work on to create a better living environment for us.

Funny though, this process has again helped my wife start to really question herself in regards to who she wants to be and how she would want to live her life. I also discovered a couple of little things in regards to what was the thing that made her feel loved and stuff. Hummmm, really great dare and I'm not going into to much detail, for a lot of it is private... but really worth doing with the 20 question liste.

Tk

Love dare day 17

Determine to guard your mate's secrets (unless they are dangerous to them or to you) and to pray for them. Talk with your spouse, and resolve to demonstrate love in spite of these issues. Really listen to them when they share perosnal thoughts and struggles with you. Make them feel safe.

Questions: How much of an effort is it for you to hold back from saying something, critical or otherwise? What have you learned about your spouse today, simply from listening?

Yes I have had a lot of trouble not to give advice when anyone speaks actually. It comes spontaneosly and I know that most of the time most people just want to vent and not be told how to handly things. I choose to continue to work on this. However, I have contained myself as I say to myself that my role is not to teach my wife but to support her in any way possible that fits HER NEEDS and not my need to feel superior.

Funny thing, again prayer really works. By listening to my wife speak, how she answered and even the questions she asked, I have realised that she is in the midst of discovering who she wants to be in this world. This is fantastic for in the past, I have pushed her and cornered her and put pressure on her for her to move in that direction. Now that I have, for a while, stopped coaching and supporting instead, she is ever so slightly taking herself on and that's the best gift a husband can receive, for a fulfilled wife is an ever so loving wife.

thanks again.

Love dare day 16

Begin praying today for your spouse's heart. Pray for the three specific areas where you desire for God to work in your spouse's life and in your marriage.

Questions: Have you experienced the power of prayer in the past? What did you choose to pray about? Was it easy for you, or did it feel foreign to you?

Yes I have experienced the power of prayer before and praying is now part of who I am. My purpose in life to to create the best relationship I can with God, so it did comes easily. However, to my suprise, I realised I had never really prayed for my wife. So this was quite an eye opener.

I prayed for her to find her own way to increase her relationship with God and that she may be proud and firm about it. It doesn't have to look a certain way and it doesn't have to look my way or her famillies way. Let her find her own way.

Then I prayed for God to help her find her true calling, her passion, her mission, her God given mission, the ways she wants to impact this world and find peace and happiness within herself. Which leads to my 3rd prayer which was excatly that. That God my help Jos to accept, love and appreciate all of who she is for all she is and is not and has and has not.

Excellent dare.
Thanks

Love dare day 15

Choose a way to show honor and respect to your spouse that is above your normal routine. It may be holding the door for her. It might be putting his clothes away for him. It may be the way you listen and speak in your communication. Show your mate that he or she is highly esteemed in your eyes.

Questions: how did you choose to show honor? What was the result? What are some other ways you could demonstrate honor in the coming days?

Well, honestly, I didn't really no what to do. So I decided to be creative and show her honor by applying many of the past dares and also a bit more. Here's how: I asked her if there is anything that I could do to help her out today or if she needed anything done. She gave me an unexpected phone call to make which I intend to complete by the end of this week (the person wasn't in). Then I offered to make supper with her and at the same time have a "how you doing" light conversation. Then to top things off, I honored her by not spending money by not bying anything at the Tim Horton's during my coaching session. She has long been trying to get me to understand the meaning about saving and that every little things counts. I honored her jugment and told her I did.

What was the result.... at least of the last act, I think it really struck her that I was activily taking action in bettering myself. I think she sees the effort and this helps with everything.

How are some other ways I could honor her, well by redoing the dares. All what we have been doing are acts of Honoring in some way or another and as challenging it may be at some times, I choose to intergrate this acts as part as my daily routine. 40 days is one thing, a life together another and I choose to BE actively engaged in making this marriage better every year.

Love dare day 14

Purposefully neglect an activity you would normally do so you can spend quality time with your spouse. Do something he or she would love to do or a project they'd really like to work on. Just be together.

Questions: What did you decide to give up? What did you do together? How did it go? What new thing did you learn (or relearn) about your spouse?

Well I decided that instead of running all the erands that I had to do, I went straight home after my coaching session to BE with my wife. However, the challenge was that when I got home she used my pressence as a way for her to get some rest while I took care of the baby. I laughed about it with her later that afternoon, saying that I had purposely not run my erands to be with her and that we both used that time to do other things.

So then we decided to take care of the baby together. I see that it doesn't always turn out the way I would've wished it look like, but it's the intention that's the real key.

See you tomorrow.

Love dare day 13

Talk to your spouse about establishing healthy rules of engagement. If your mate is not ready for this, then write out your own personal rules to "fight" by. Resolve to abide by them when the next disagreement occurs.

Questions: If your spouse participated with you, what was their response? What rules did you write for yourself?

Having already been through a "klemmer" seminar which had taken on this exact same topic, it was quite easy to set up the ground rules for any futur argument. Josianne was very willing and open and we both wondered why we waited over a full year before setting this up. So basically our trigger word is:

• C'est la Crise! It's a french phrase meaning it's on!
• Then we go into 2 minute rounds, where the caller get's first go.
• Rules: No swearing, keep a low voice (no yelling), stay on subject, no going back into the past, no going to sleep angry
• Last but not least, make room for new rules to come in as we progress as a couple and that we learn to keep fighting fare.

Great dare!

love dare day 12

Demonstrate love by willingly choosing to give in to an area of disagreement between you and your spouse. Tell them you are putting their preference first.

Questions: What issue did you choose? What did giving in cost you? How will this help you in the future?

Well this was quite a challenge for we don't have that many topics of disagreement, unless we are both tired and then I get into argumental mode. So today was a bit of a challenge for I was looking for a conversation or a current topic that could be used for todays dare.

What I found was the situation regarding where to baptise Noah. I liked the idea of having here, in our town and Jos thought it would be cool to do it in their old home town. I used this situation and worked on discovering how I felt with all this rather than focusing on is this the right topic.

I realised, that even with something as small as this, it's not that easy for me to give in. I really must be focused on creating a better relationship with Jos to just let go of my ideas. However, I have to say that I have been practicing this for a while now. Especially when we get into arguments. I know how demanding it is for me to say I'm sorry and I'm wrong right there and then during the argument and not a couple of hours later. It's funny because I had the opportunity to do so only a couple of days ago... to bad the dare didn't fall on that day, but nevertheless, it was a great exercise and one I choose to keep working at. Because I believe that letting go for the benefit of the relationship is key to a long lasting marriage.

Thanks

love dare day 11

What need does your spouse have that you could meet today? Can you run an errand? Give a back rub or foot massage? Is there housework you could help with? Choose a gesture that says, I cherish you and do it with a smile.

I choose to put everything else I had to do this afternoon, sit down and plan our meals for the week and go do the groceries. To be honest, it took a lot out of me, because I am tired theses days. My mind is full and I have a lot of DIFFERENT things going on. Creating a name for myself in coaching, taking care of the business transfer, making sure things get done around the house, taking time for my wife, my son and ohhhh yeah, lets not forget me.

So what I also did today, is made sure I changed my perception on things. This is not another task that I add on to an already full schedual. No, this is a live commitment that I CHOOSE to do in a fun and loving way. This really helped me out and helped me change my mood.

Besides, when I saw the look on my wife's face when this heavy task was already done for this week and we we're only friday... It was all worth the effort.

Thanks

Love dare day 10

Do something out of the ordinary today for you spouse - something that proves (to you and to them) that your love is based on your choice and nothing else. Wash her car, Clean the kitchen, buy his favorite dessert. Fold the laundry. Demonstrate love to them for the sheer joy of being their partner in marriage.

Reflexion questions: Has your love in the past been based on your spouse's attributes and behaviour, or on your commitment? Humm excellent question. I would have to say that my love or should I say, the demonstration of my love has been based on my wife's attributes and behaviours most of the time. It's quite a challenge to stay focused on creating a 10/10 relationship when you are angry, irritated or just tired of your spouse's behaviours.

The fun thing that I'm realising is that even though I thought she was the problem, most of the time, I was the problem or at least not part of the solution. Being more focused on your commitment allows you to see things completely differently, just like today, where I found this dare to be quite challenging. I was very tired and brain dead. I just wanted a day off and I found myself ressisting to demonstrate an "out of the ordinary" action.

However, I got over myself and offered my wife a massage. This might not seem like much, but to her and to me this is huge, for I had lost the desir to give massages. Funny thing, before this action, I was tired and cranky. After offering the massage, I am more energetic, more patiente and a lot happier. What a notice.

2nd reflexion question: How can I continue to show love when it's not returned in a way I hoped for? Well, understanding why I'm doing this, that I'm the only one responsible for what I want, want to do and how I want to live.

Good night.

Love dare day 9

Jos right beside me so I don't have the book, but here's the resume of what the dare was about.

Today choose to greet your spouse in a completely different matter, expression how much you care, love and appreciate her. Then, commit to changing the way you greet your spouse in order to create, daily, that affect.

Well I chose to give her a hug and a long kiss and tell her, with a lot of passion how special she was to me. This is truly a different way for me to greet my wife. I honestly have to say that I didn't really affectionnately greet my wife. I would just say hi and then maybe sometimes a little kiss and get right into what I needed to do.

So I'm really happy that this dare come about, because it alloud me to realise that I was missing out on a very important daily habit. You know, you never know what will happen and if you will see each other again that day, so I little special time to take notice of just how important the other person is in your life, is a huge AHAH for me.

I love Jos so much and found it quite challenging to change my habit. However, it was really great and fulfilling to do.

I DO commit to keep on greeting my wife like the special and amazing woman she is.

Thank you love dare,

Robert

love dare day 8

Determine to become you spouse's biggest fan and to reject any thoughts of jealousy. To help you set your heart on your spouse and focus on their achievements, take yesterday's list of negative attributes and discreetly burn it. Then share with your spouse how glad you are about a success he or she recently enjoyed.

Reflexion questions: How hard was it to destroy the list? What are some positive experiences that you can celebrate in the life of your mate? How can you encourage them toward future successes?

Well, not hard at all. Actually, I didn't burn the sheet I just deleeted it from my computer. Easily accomplished, without any hardship.

As for positive experiences, well we are going through a lot of changes in regards to our new baby and I expressed how wonderful it was that She actually left the house to go to a soccer game. Sounds pretty easy, but you get an amazingly loving mom to let go of a 8 week old baby, even if it's only for a couple of hours. So we celebrated that fact. Got to tell you, that with the positive comments I made about her last night, really set things up for an eventful night (wink, if you know what I mean... hahahaha). Man I love this book.

You know, if I work on feeling the way I feel now, full of love, passion, patience and compassion, I don't believe encouraging my wife in regards to future successes will be a problem. Hum... something just came up when saying that.

Funny thing.... it's easier for me to encourage her in her successes when I'm successful as well. WOW, ok something to look into and or be aware of. Just like the saying goes... i'M ok with your success as long as it's not bigger than mine. So I choose to work on being my wife's biggest cheerleader. LIke I said, right now i'm ok and all is perfect..... we'll see.

Love dare day 7

Draw 2 sheets of paper. On one, write all the positive elements you find about your spouse. On the second. All negative. Once completed, put this sheets away for now, they will be used in another time. During the course of the day, pick one of the positve elements you wrote down and express that feeling to your spouse

Reflexion questions

What list was easier. Honnestly, I "wanted" the positive list to be easier and quite frankly it was. HOwever, the negatif list was also very easy to complete. Hahaha, I caught myself wanting to find more positive than negatif and of course it worked out that way. But only now, during the reflecting process can I see how I chose to show up during the exercise. It's all good. It just means that I know the negative reflexions are there and present and I choose to focus on the good.

I choose to express what an amazing women and attentive mother she is.

See you tomorrow.

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Love dare day 6

Choose today to react to tough circumstances in your marriage in loving ways instead of with irritation. Begin by making a list below of areas where you need to add margin to your schedual. Then list any wrong motivations that you need to release from your life.

i choose to add breathing room in the following areas of my life:

1. Well actually, I'm really proud to say that I have cleaned up a lot of lost time lately. Got to say, Noah's arrival has help in that area and the fact that I'm a solo entrepreneur makes it a lot easier for me to add and substract actions. It almost went completely the other way. Since Noah, I have let go of almost everything and have only kept my top priorities.
2. What I have been learning is the ability to say NO! Humm. what a feeling to be able to say what we mean and do what we want based on personnal priorities and desires rather than the fact that we NEED to be loved. WOW, I got to say, loving myself, respecting myself and putting God, me, wife and son 1st on my list has opened up a lot of space in my life.

However, if I choose to step into the reflexion questions, the question about when was the last time I have overeacted was in regards of meal planning. I choose to release myself of any past negative judgment towards my wife for I have taken over the kitchen since the begginning and now being tired wanted her to step up and give me a hand. Hummm. nothing like a good conversation to create amazing solutions so that we can both pitch in and eat healthier and more thoughtout and fun meals.

So the decision I have made today is to plan our weekly meals with my wife so that we both no what is going on and what each of us can do to help the other out.

Humm. I feel so blessed to be doing this. It has already created an amazing and recognizably healthy and loving relationship.

see you tomorrow.

love dare day 5

Ask your spouse to tell you 3 things that cause him or her to be irritated or uncomfortable with you. You must do so without attacking them or justifying your behavior. This is from their perspectiv only.

Here are the 3 elements that were mentionned

1. My spending especially in regards to eating at restaurants.
2. My lack of discipline when it comes to taking care of my health
3. My lack of quickness when it comes to fixing things around the house.

I handled these commentaries very well I believe. It's not like we have never talked about theses topics before. However, it was truly a special moment. Even though I was a little prehensible and almost on the defensive, she took the question quite well and made an honest attempt to create a learning situation. I was a bit surprised at the 3 comment, but must agree, I am slow in regards to fixing things.

So all and all, I really appreciated this conversation. Now the hard part is putting it into action. To answer the last question, well I WILL implement transformation in all 3 departments. I don't intend to be perfect and I will give 100% effort into this.

Excellent day.

love dare day 4

Dare: Contact your spouse sometime during the business of the day. Have no agenda other than asking how he or she is doing and if there is anything you could do for them.

What did I learn: well I learned that she is very pleased with the situation as it is. I am thoughtful and a lot of help around with helping the baby and getting things organised around the house. I also learned, that she would like for us to have a once (1) every week meal planning session so that we're not always running around last minute with no energy trying to fix a quick meal. I also no, even thought she did not mention it, that she would like more massages. This is something that I have lost the taste for. It's a challenge for me to massage someone without knowing what I'm doing. So if I can't be perfect, I don't do it. Hum.... that a 2nd dare I give to myself for tomorrow. Whatever day 5 dare is, I will also massage my wife.

So all and all, life is great in this house. However, I do believe that there are probably some things that Josianne is keeping inside that will come out as we continue with this amazing new love level creation theme. I say this, because I have chosen to set this situation up even though are relationship has never been better. This might have an impact on what Josianne is able to endure or be content with.

My challenge is to enroll her to use this opportunity to get the bad stuff out so that we can analyse the situation rationnaly without adding any repressed anger.

Ok, enough for today. See you tomorrow.

Love dare day 3

Day 3 is along with restraining negative thoughts and words, buy your spouse something that says " I was thinking about you".

Hum... funny thing. Buying gifts is something that comes very naturally for me. Over time I also have discovered that Josianne's love language is not gifts, but quality time, complements, tasks anything but gifts. So today was a bit tricky for me. I had the idea of buying Josianne some flowers or something like that, but then decided to offer Josianne something a little more special for her and a lot more close to her needs right now.

So I offered Josianne the gift of sleep. The flipside of this gift is that I knew that at first she would be really upset, but after a couple of hours, she would learn to appreciate the power of such a gift. For those how don't understand, I offered commercial milk to our baby Noah, which is harder to digest and allows the baby to sleep longer. It works like a charm. It gave Josianne 6 hours of long awaited sleep. However, she was upset for giving something less natural to our baby.

So I have mixed emotions on this one. I believe this gift was worth a lot more than anything I could have given her and she was upset for a while. HUmmm, was this dare completed? Well if you ask her if she appreciated the gift, she would say yes. So I think at the end of the day, I offered her something that said, I was thinking about you.

Love Dare day 2

Today's dare is added to patience, is kindness. Doing something kind for my wife.

Excellent day today. I kept in mind to say nothing negatif to my wife and be patient at all times. Today, I was on fire! As for kindness, it's funny that the first thought I had was to purchase a gift for her. However, knowing that her love language is quality time, complements and tasks I quickly changed patterns and found many kind things to do. First of all, I decided to NOT go to the restaurant after my english class, even though I had not eaten yet. I decided to have diner with Josianne and how amazing it was to see that Jos was preparing a beautiful meal for diner. I'm really glad I choose to optout of the restaurant. Ouff, dodged a bullet on that one.

Then I decided to do the groceries, which I know she wanted done and doesn't like to do. Then it was helping out around the house and giving her time to rest and some along time without the new baby.

So all and all, today was a great day. I am so blessed to have her in my life. She is worth all the effort I'm putting in to take our love to a completely different level.

See you tomorrow.

The love dare day 1

For the next day, resolve to demonstrate patience and to say nothing negative to your spouse at all. If the temptation arises, choose not to say anything. it's better to hold your tongue than to say something you'll regret.

Wow, ok so I thought that would be easy enough to do. Hahaha, right after reading the dare I started to think of all the times and subjects I had negative thoughts towards my wife. I pictured the moments and situations and allowed my mind to wonder off, telling myself: "Ok, I can do this. I'm in the perfect mindset and don't feel any repressed anger or hardly any ;-)". This should go very smoothly". I almost went on to reading the 2nd dare, thinking I was so cool.

A couple minutes later, without even noticing it (I only realised this hours after all this was done) I had started to openly criticise my wife in regards to the way she wanted to cook the porc for a supper. Without even blinking, I went right into what I had 30 minutes ago tapped myself on the back for not going to do.

How crazy was that. It's not until later that evening that I realised what I had done and that I had just sacrificed my first dare. So then I thought, ok lets start all over. Lets start now and go on for 24 hours and lets call that a day.

Then I told myself. YOu know, whatever happens, happens for a reason and evening though I did mess up the first dare, here's a perfect situation for me to do something different and put my love for my wife to the test. So I picked up the phone (I was driving to a meeting that evening) and told my wife how sorry I was for being an ass about her lack of originality and that I had no right to be that way with her. Wow, I have just set the stage for an amazing 40 days for I have realised that I don't "have" to be perfect. Perfect doesn't exist. However, I can make sur I'm 100% aware of what is going on and be completely honest with myself and make sure I apoligize for a messed up situation.

So all and all, I learned a great lesson today. It's never as easy as it seems and patience and kindness need awarness and a desire to improve oneself. I'm happy that I messed up and even happier for the courage I took to apologize for my behavior.

Day one = check.

1.14 Quelle situation est-ce que je veux changer à ce moment?

La situation que je veux changer à ce moment c'est la situation dans mon entreprise Usana. J'ai découvert que je n'arrivais plus à trouver de nouvelles personnes, car je n'étais pas en mesure d'offrir le succès aux gens qui y sont déjà inscrit. Je crois qu'il est temps que j'offre toute mes capacités et tout mon temps aux gens dans mon organisation afin de réveiller le leadership qui y dore.

Je sais qu'il ne faut que 4 leaders afin de lancer mon organisation à un tout nouveau niveau. Je choisi donc d'offrir mon coaching comme un défi personnel qui me permettra de prouver ma vision et son impact dans mon organisation.

Ok, là je ne suis plus connecté. Je quitte et reviendra plus tard.

Dans le passé....

UN MOMENT DE RÉFLEXION SUR LA DÉCLARATION SUIVANTE:

Dans le passé, il se peut que j'étais plus ou moins engagé à créer ce résultat. Qu'importe.

À ce moement présent, dès maintenant, je suis vraiment prêt à renouveler mon engagement à la création consciente de ce résultat, laissant de côté, pour l'instant, tous mes soucis ou mes doutes à propos de comment ce résultat arrivera.

Hum... oui, oui et oui. La raison pourquoi je suis beaucoup plus engagé c'est parceque clair pour moi le résultat que je veux obtenir et c'est aussi clair l'impact que je veux avoir dans ma vie et par conséquent, dans le monde.

Donc, oui je ne sais pas exactement comment le tout se déroulera et je suis quand même hyper confiant et engagé car pour la première fois dans ma vie, je sais qui je suis.

Est-ce que je suis clair à propos du résultat que je veux?

Lorsque je lis l'affirmation suivante: Je suis clair à propos du résultat que je veux, il me vient un nuage de brouillard avec à l'intérieur un packet d'images correspondant à ce que je veux. Il est pas possible pour moi de rattacher toute ces images dans une photo globale présentement. Donc, est-ce que je suis clair à propos du résultat que je veux... ehhh Non, pas pour l'instant.

Ok 1er constatation et je suis content de savoir maintenant ou est-ce que je me situe. Ce qui m'amène à ma prochaine question, celle que j'adore et qui vient de la famille de KLemmer " Si tu étais clair à propos du résultat que je veux, ça aurait l'aire de quoi? Hum.... bonne question.

Je veux une organisation Usana autonome et en pleinne expensation.
Je veux être reconnu comme coach par la société
Je veux faire parti du mouvement de libération et création de soi. Que de plus en plus de gens réalise qu'ils ont le pouvoir de dessiner leur vie en fonction de leur désirs, passions et dons de dieu.
Je veux devenir une référence et qu'on s'arrache mes connaissances en developpement de l'authenticité et le leadership.
Je veux offrir une alternative à ma conjointe afin qu'elle puisse elle aussi avoir la possibilité de vivre pleinnement sa vie.
Je veux vivre les bienfaits du cycle de prospérité perpetuel.
Je veux révolutionner la façon dont le marketing de réseau et enseigné et ainsi changer la perception sociale de cette industrie.

Voilà je crois que c'est ça!

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Quelles récompenses externes vais-je attirer pour avoir vécu ce résultat? Inscrivez au moins 5 récompenses externes (physiques, mesurables, tangibles), comme l'argent (combien?), mentions, titres, accomplissements, remerciements, promotions, etc.

Hum.. les récompenses. Et bien je crois que le fait d'être en mesure de rejoindre et surtout maintenant d'attirer les gens qui me cherchent et là le but ultime de cette démarche. Ensuite, de part les résultats des gens qui ont accepté de joindre le programme complèt de la formation de Leadership Authentique, je pourrais commencer à récolté ce que mon cycle de prosperité perpétuel commence à fournir. Bref, je crois que les récompenses seront monétaires dans une ordre d'atteindre les 10 000$/sem que j'attends depuis longtemps. Deplus, je crois qu'alors je vais commencer à attirer de l'attention envers mon concept et ma façon de faire. Ce qui m'attirera plusieurs autre possibilités et de lancer ma carrière de conférenciers plus internationnalment. Je deviendrais alors coach de coach. Bref, je vais avoir plus, afin de pouvoir Être plus et faire plus, etc...

Je vais m'avoir libérer de mes soucis financiers et je vais pouvoir offrir une toute nouvelle possibilité de carrière à Josianne. Je vais pouvoir investir davantage dans la maision, dans mon linge, dans ma voiture etc....

Ce sera le début d'une toute nouvelle vie d'abondance.

Merci

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Quelles émotions, dans moi, vivrais-je pour avoir vécu ce résultat?

Je m'imagine à la fin de mon séminaire sur la démystification du Marketing de réseau et qu'une grande partie des gens viennent me voir et veulent en connaître d'avantage sur qui je suis, ce que je fais et surtout si je peux leur permettre de vivre leur plein potentiel et de devenir le leader Authentique qui dort en eux.

Je me sens ohhh tellement fière, heureux et surtout reconnaissant d'être ce que je suis, rien de plus et surtout rien de moins.

Enfin, une façon de vivre et d'avoir ce que j'ai toujours voulu qui me colle à la peu. J'ai toujours su que j'avais une grande mission dans ce monde et d'aider les gens à ce libérer et d'ÊTRE tout ce qu'ils ont le don d'être me fait vraiement tripper. Ça vient me chercher dans les trippes.

Il suffit maintenant de devenir le leader AUthentique que je suis et que je me lance.

Merci

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Quand est-ce que je veux vivre ce résultat? Dans... 3 mois - 6 mois- 12 mois- 2ans - 3ans
Quelle date spécifique? (jour/mois/année)

Humm... wow, ok c'est toute une question ça. Et ce qui me vient, c'est ahh non, pas encore un engagement que je ne tiendra pas. Toutfois, je crois que l'idée du nouveau programme à l'université pourrait voir le jour dans 3 ans. Je le mets un peu plus loin, car je crois que je peux mettre en pratique le modèle de ce cours d'ici les 3 prochains mois. Bref, c'est mon but entout cas. Je veux mettre au point une partie de ce programme et le mettre à l'épreuve afin de faire croître, MON entreprise Usana et ensuite le lancer à l'université..... Ouain, j'ai l'impression que j'évade la question et que j'ai peur de me commettre. Nous savons tous, que ce n'est pas un ou l'autre.

Donc si la question est, quand est-ce que je veux avoir établi mon programme de création de leaders authentique? je dirais, dans un mois, soit pour le 1 juin 2009.

Pour le programme à l'université, si je ne fais qu'écouter la réponse qui vient de mon coeur: la réponse dit que le programme complèt n'est pas présent en moi pour l'instant, Toutefois, la formation de dymistification du MLM est là et même, c,est là clé de mon projet. Donc, je lance le tout pour le 1 juin 2009.

OUff.....

YES SIR!!! Je crois que j'ai vraiment touché la façon d'intégrer ou du moins présenter les possibilités d'usana au gens.

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Si j'avais toutes les ressources et les pouvoirs pour changer cette situation, quel serait le résultat final le plus significatif, le plus grand, l'idéal, le nec plus ultra, que je voudrais vivre?

Wow, j'imagine que je pourrais fondé une école et/ou un tout nouveau programme au BAC à l'université qui serait entrelâcé avec la formation donnée à l'entrepreneurship. Une formation de 3 ans qui aurait comme seul but de créer des leaders Authentique qui veulent être rien de plus et surtout rien de moins que ce que Dieu avait l'intention qu'ils soient.

Dans ce programme, il y aurait des cours de base comme le positionnement, la création de son énoncé, l'établissement de sa clientèle cible et l'élaboration du Plan stratégie et d'affaires. Ensuite, il y aurait de la formation oratoire, comme Toastmasters afin de perfectionné les présentations publiques et de faire croître le leader en nous. Il y aurait aussi des cours de développement de soi, comme Klemmer qui à pour but de mieux se connaître et aussi réaliser l'impact que nous avons et que nous pouvons avoir dans ce monde. Win Win, c'est plus qu'un concept, c'est un mode de vie. Bien sûr, il y aurait de la formation de tronc commun d'adminstration comme finance, comptabilité, information, marketing etc....

WOOOOO, je viens d'avoir peur! Je trouve ça gros ce que j'écris et j'ai mes programmes qui sont venu arrêter tout `ca. Toutefois, comme je dis souvent, ON S'EN FOU! Laisse faire les peurs et ayant du fun à libérer le fond de notre pensée.

Donc, wow, un tout nouveau programme au bac. La grande question, ou est-ce que le marketing de réseau embarque? Hum... je crois qu'un cours sur le marketing de réseau serait primordiale afin de sensibilisé les gens à cette forme d'entreprise. Il est évident qu'il ne serait pas l'idéal pour tous les gens, sauf que je crois que la dimistification du marketing de réseau est un most, car c'est une école incroyable de developpement personnel.

OUff.... C'est assez fou ça.... on continue.

Donc, un cours sur le marketing de réseau qui position, l'historique, le négatif, le positif, les possibilités, les fausses croyances, ce que c'est, ce que ce n,est pas, les différents modèles etc.... Wow je trouve ça vraiment cool comme concept de Bac.

Donc voici les rubriques

1. Clarification (Positionnnement, énoncé, offre, clientèle cible
2. Plan stratégiques
3. Developpement de soi
4. Leadership
5. Habilité oratoire
6. Initiation au marketing de réseau
7. Cours adminstratif
8. Marketing
9. langues
10. Organisation d'évenements

WOw, c'est ça que je veux. Former une école de qui à comme concept la libération et la création de soi. Authenticité dans le leadership.

Ok, je passe à la prochaine question, et j'aime ce qui j'écris. C'est vraiment le fun. C'est très excitant pour ne pas dire épeurant ;-).

Merci

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Décrire avec autant de détail que possible ce qui ne fonctionne pas (ou ce qui ne me satisfait pas):
Ce qui ne va pas c'est que je me sens un peu en résistance enver non pas Usana, mais plutôt envers le marketing de réseau. Même si je crois que le système d'Usana et du marketing de réseau global est sérieusement une merveilleuse invention, car il permet, audela d'être un levier financier efficace, c'est une école de "vie". Le marketing de réseau, pour y réussir, on choisi de ce dépasser sur tous les niveaux de notre vie et c'est pourquoi autant de gens n'y réussisent pas. Hum.... ce qui m'amène à dire que c'est peut-être la façon de promouvoir le marketing de réseau qui fait défaut, dans mon cas. Pour faire des sous, le marketing de réseau est une des méthodes les plus difficiles qui existe. Non pas parcque le système n'est pas simple et que n'importe qui peut réussir, mais plutôt car il demande et exige une volonté profonde de changer! Si en promouvant le MLM comme étant un levier financier de première ordre, je trompe inévitablement les gens et j'obtiens les résultats que j'ai. Toutefois, si je présente le marketing de réseau comme l'école et le mode de travail idéal pour les gens qui aiment aidé les gens et que le processus permettra aux gens de Rêveiller le leader qui dort en eux et que le résultat de ce périble est effictivement de la prospirité et même la libérté financière. Hum... voilà ce qui ne va pas dans mon système et pourquoi je n'arrivais pas à me sentir à lèse dans un telle système. Je me sentais faux et même un charlatant.

Voilà ce qui n'allait pas. Je n'était pas authentique dans ma démarche ce qui m'empêchait d'être le leader que je suis. Je n'était pas engagé, car ce n'était pas claire pourquoi Usana était dans ma vie, mise à part réduire mon fardeaux fiscale.

Cela, ne règle pas la question de mon offre global de libération et de création de soi. Toutefois, je crois que j'ai mis le doigt sur une situation qui me hantait depuis un bon moment maintenant.

Merci.

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Une situation dans mon projet d'entreprise qui est importante pour moi, qui ne se présente pas aussi bien que je voudrais, et que je veux changer, c'est:
De ne pas être en mesure de rejoindre les gens que je sais que je peux aider. De ne pas être en mesure de définir mon offre global, qui est sûrement une des raisons pour laquelle je n,arrive pas à clarifier mon message et de rejoindre les gens que je sais que je peux aider. Présentement, je crois fortment qu'il y a des gens qui vivent très bien. Ils ont une belle maision, de beaux vêtements, une famille et/ou une famille en devenir et qu'ils sont quand même insatisfait. Ils ont le sentiment de ne pas être totalement épanouis ou même heureux. Ils ont l'impression de valoir beaucoup plus et aussi d'être en mesure d'en faire beaucoup plus que ce qu'ils font présentement. Et je sais ça, car je crois qu'il est impossible que je sois le seul ;-) Il n'est pas vrai que je suis le seul a avoir quitter un emploi de 70k par année pour vivre dans la misère depuis, car il y avait là un sentiment de vide et aussi que je m'éloignais de ce qui m'est le plus chère... ma femme et ma famille.

Donc, la situation qui n,est à mon goût c'est de ne pas savoir comment offrir Usana dans un concept global de libération et création de soi. Bref, comment me servir, de ce que je crois être un outil incroyable car la santé, la famille et l'entreaide sont des valeurs importantes pour moi, comme plateform qui permet d'ÊTRE rien de plus et surtout rien de moins de ce que Dieu a comme intention pour nous, afin de mettre à profit nos dons, talents, passions et/ou intérêts propres à nous, ce qui nous donnera ensuite accès à "AVOIR" ce que nous avons toujours voulu avoir.

Je crois que c'est ce manque de clarification de mon offre qui m'empêche de clarifier ma clientèle cible qui, par conséquent, m'empêche de rejoindre les gens qui ont besoin de mon aide.

Merci.