Love dare day 15

Choose a way to show honor and respect to your spouse that is above your normal routine. It may be holding the door for her. It might be putting his clothes away for him. It may be the way you listen and speak in your communication. Show your mate that he or she is highly esteemed in your eyes.

Questions: how did you choose to show honor? What was the result? What are some other ways you could demonstrate honor in the coming days?

Well, honestly, I didn't really no what to do. So I decided to be creative and show her honor by applying many of the past dares and also a bit more. Here's how: I asked her if there is anything that I could do to help her out today or if she needed anything done. She gave me an unexpected phone call to make which I intend to complete by the end of this week (the person wasn't in). Then I offered to make supper with her and at the same time have a "how you doing" light conversation. Then to top things off, I honored her by not spending money by not bying anything at the Tim Horton's during my coaching session. She has long been trying to get me to understand the meaning about saving and that every little things counts. I honored her jugment and told her I did.

What was the result.... at least of the last act, I think it really struck her that I was activily taking action in bettering myself. I think she sees the effort and this helps with everything.

How are some other ways I could honor her, well by redoing the dares. All what we have been doing are acts of Honoring in some way or another and as challenging it may be at some times, I choose to intergrate this acts as part as my daily routine. 40 days is one thing, a life together another and I choose to BE actively engaged in making this marriage better every year.