Love dare day 18

Prepare a special dinner at home, just for the 2 of you. The dinner can be as nice as you prefer. Focus this time on getting to know your spouse better, perhaps in areas you've rarely talked about. Determine to make it an enjoyable evening for you and your mate.

Questions: What did you learn about your spouse that you didn't know before? How could you continue this process of discovery in other ways, at other times? What were some of the moments that made this evening memorable?

Well I have to tell you that the 20 questions in the appendixe really kicked it off for us. I invented a story about what I was reading and that I thought it would be interesting if you read the questions together and both answered them honestly and openly. IT was really kind of GREAT. The questions were awsome and we realised that we are very intuned with each other. We both know where we stand and what we both choose to work on to create a better living environment for us.

Funny though, this process has again helped my wife start to really question herself in regards to who she wants to be and how she would want to live her life. I also discovered a couple of little things in regards to what was the thing that made her feel loved and stuff. Hummmm, really great dare and I'm not going into to much detail, for a lot of it is private... but really worth doing with the 20 question liste.

Tk