love dare day 4

Dare: Contact your spouse sometime during the business of the day. Have no agenda other than asking how he or she is doing and if there is anything you could do for them.

What did I learn: well I learned that she is very pleased with the situation as it is. I am thoughtful and a lot of help around with helping the baby and getting things organised around the house. I also learned, that she would like for us to have a once (1) every week meal planning session so that we're not always running around last minute with no energy trying to fix a quick meal. I also no, even thought she did not mention it, that she would like more massages. This is something that I have lost the taste for. It's a challenge for me to massage someone without knowing what I'm doing. So if I can't be perfect, I don't do it. Hum.... that a 2nd dare I give to myself for tomorrow. Whatever day 5 dare is, I will also massage my wife.

So all and all, life is great in this house. However, I do believe that there are probably some things that Josianne is keeping inside that will come out as we continue with this amazing new love level creation theme. I say this, because I have chosen to set this situation up even though are relationship has never been better. This might have an impact on what Josianne is able to endure or be content with.

My challenge is to enroll her to use this opportunity to get the bad stuff out so that we can analyse the situation rationnaly without adding any repressed anger.

Ok, enough for today. See you tomorrow.