love dare day 5

Ask your spouse to tell you 3 things that cause him or her to be irritated or uncomfortable with you. You must do so without attacking them or justifying your behavior. This is from their perspectiv only.

Here are the 3 elements that were mentionned

1. My spending especially in regards to eating at restaurants.
2. My lack of discipline when it comes to taking care of my health
3. My lack of quickness when it comes to fixing things around the house.

I handled these commentaries very well I believe. It's not like we have never talked about theses topics before. However, it was truly a special moment. Even though I was a little prehensible and almost on the defensive, she took the question quite well and made an honest attempt to create a learning situation. I was a bit surprised at the 3 comment, but must agree, I am slow in regards to fixing things.

So all and all, I really appreciated this conversation. Now the hard part is putting it into action. To answer the last question, well I WILL implement transformation in all 3 departments. I don't intend to be perfect and I will give 100% effort into this.

Excellent day.