Love dare day 6

Choose today to react to tough circumstances in your marriage in loving ways instead of with irritation. Begin by making a list below of areas where you need to add margin to your schedual. Then list any wrong motivations that you need to release from your life.

i choose to add breathing room in the following areas of my life:

1. Well actually, I'm really proud to say that I have cleaned up a lot of lost time lately. Got to say, Noah's arrival has help in that area and the fact that I'm a solo entrepreneur makes it a lot easier for me to add and substract actions. It almost went completely the other way. Since Noah, I have let go of almost everything and have only kept my top priorities.
2. What I have been learning is the ability to say NO! Humm. what a feeling to be able to say what we mean and do what we want based on personnal priorities and desires rather than the fact that we NEED to be loved. WOW, I got to say, loving myself, respecting myself and putting God, me, wife and son 1st on my list has opened up a lot of space in my life.

However, if I choose to step into the reflexion questions, the question about when was the last time I have overeacted was in regards of meal planning. I choose to release myself of any past negative judgment towards my wife for I have taken over the kitchen since the begginning and now being tired wanted her to step up and give me a hand. Hummm. nothing like a good conversation to create amazing solutions so that we can both pitch in and eat healthier and more thoughtout and fun meals.

So the decision I have made today is to plan our weekly meals with my wife so that we both no what is going on and what each of us can do to help the other out.

Humm. I feel so blessed to be doing this. It has already created an amazing and recognizably healthy and loving relationship.

see you tomorrow.