What is one of the greatest needs in your spouse's life right now? Is there a need you could lift from their shoulders today by a daring act of sacrifice on your part? Whether the need is big or small, purpose to do what you can to meet the need.
Questions: How much of your mate's stress is caused by your lack of concern or initiative? When you expressed a desire to help, how did they receive it? Are there other needs you could meet?
Right now the biggest need I choose to take care of is to let my spouse the freedom of choice by being able to efficiently provide for the family. Since I've launched my business's 3 years ago, she has not let herself dream or think of what she would like to do feeling trapped and unable to do such a thing AND be the soul provider.
THis is huge for me and I have been working on liberating her from this burden for some time and choose to continue to do so for as long as it takes for Jos to not feel the need to sacrifice her needs and wants because of a financial situation.
Are there other needs to be taken care of, I'm pretty sure there are and to be quite honest, since our communication level is rising, I get to find out just how and in what way I can better help my wife. So yes, other areas of need are open and I am stepping into fulfilling those needs as well while still keeping on eye on the big picture.
Thanks.
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