If at all possible, try to initiate sex with your husband or wife today. Do this in a way that honors what your spouse has told you (or implied to you) about what they need from you sexually. Ask God to make this enjoyable for both of you as well as a path to greater intimacy.
Questions: Was this a satisfying experience for you? If it didn't turn out the way you'd hoped, what do you think is complicating matters? Have you committed this to prayer? If it was a true blessing for both of you, what can you learn from this for the future?
Hum... right now having the fact that she is still in remission from having the baby, I don't believe is a question of sexual urge, but more a physicaly pain situation. It's funny that you mention prayer, for this had never crossed my mind to pray for intimacy that way? I have prayed for me and my urges and my thoughts to be centered around my wife and not the internet and since I have launched theses prayers, I have felt a shift and it has dramatically changed our intimacy level. However, physically, it's a challenge right now and I pray for patience and compassion. Now I get to pray for a greater sexual relationship with my wife. Wow what a concept. Funny how it slipped my mind and that it was always right there in my face.
Thank you Lord.
Robert
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